Why The Idiot?
The whole idea of this blog came from a conversation I had with J and Lover where we were discussing hypothetical titles for our autobiographies. I naturally chose something sincere with a touch of humor and came up with “The Heartfelt Confessions of an Idiot”. Collectively, we thought this would make a great name for a blog and HFC was born and also the title for the first section.
I chose the Idiot as the dating title because aren’t we all idiots when it comes to love and dating? One of the biggest mistakes we make with relationships is making the same mistake over and over again. Isn’t the definition of insanity to do the same thing over and over and expect different results? People, please stop picking the bad boy/girl. Stop thinking white lies are better than the truth. And please, please stop trying to change a person.
Personally, I’m an idiot because I do not trust my gut and my decisions. I’m an idiot because I forgive too easily instead of moving on. I’m an idiot for picking men that are safe when I should find someone that challenges me. One of these days I will learn from my mistakes but until then I will continue to make idiotic decisions. After all, aren’t the mistakes and struggles what make the journey more interesting?
Hello, my name is Meggie and I’m an idiot.